Thursday, April 12, 2012

Grrrrrrrrrrr

UUUUGGGGHHHHHH YUCK BOOOOOOOO!


I didn’t wish to blog today!



What a YUCKY day it was!



I really hate to write such posts, but at the same time, I felt blogging may help revive my spirits!



I had planned to make a post on our Panchavati trip, but now I am keeping it for another day!



I can’t pluck up enough energy to get into that mode of mind.



An elongated post, just like my long FACE!



Can't Help!

Saturday, April 7, 2012

This is for You Arvind!

I couldn’t get this guy out of my mind. His face kept bouncing back and I found myself at the desk writing this for him!

It is a big pain being a teacher, if you have not really mastered the art of saying goodbye to students who pass out every year! It is more painful when you have to say goodbye to students with whom you have a great rapport! 

Last week, it was Swa who called up to say bye, and today Arvind came around to bid adieu! I was quite taken aback by the way he entered and greeted me in the library, for the typical ‘Ara’ style was missing!!! But when he came near, I could see his usual expression, followed by this dialogue -“Miss, Two fotographs!”

We spent almost an hour talking, I asked about his future plans, his new school and such other stuff! We clicked a few pics, I know pics are not really needed, coz he will never be forgotten, for he is one of the best students I have come across! Now, he is moving to a classroom, where I will not be his teacher and it really twinges me!

There are many fond memories about this handsome guy! We have had a lot many sessions of arguments and fights too!

Oh Arvind, I will miss all those!

I can never forget the speech you gave during the Champion of Primrose, the wonderful presentation of “The Road not Taken”, the way you expressed your gratitude for the opportunity, the cutest expression you gave during Rheu’s victory speech, your wonderful essays and letters, the myriad ways that you employ to ANNOY me and all those fun sessions we had!

I really don’t know what to say!
As you move on to the highways of life,
I wish you drive your life-car with utmost care!
For highways offer much freedom,
But seamless freedom has its own pitfalls!
So, think twice before you change gears,
And press hard on the accelerator!
Wishing you the very best in the years to roll,
And I am sure
One Day, You will make me PROUD with the thought
That I was once your Teacher!
Oh, How I 'HATE' You Arvind
For making me so emotional!



I will equally miss my friend and colleague, Hema,  his mom and the lovely twins!Hmmmmm..................

At the Close of the Academic Year!


This is the 12th year that saw me as a teacher!

We are almost at the close of this academic year. Looking back at this year, I am not really sure about the changes it had brought in me as a teacher! Good or Bad – There are changes!

I have always believed that teaching teenagers helps me in keeping my energy level high! (Of late, this philosphy has changed, but let it be a secret for the time being-ha ha) Being with the teenagers and listening to their kinda talks is something that keeps you in high spirits.

I never had moved closely with the higher graders, but this year, somehow, the ice got broken! I guess LUCK struck in the form of Talent Time -coz it was only after Talent Time that the girls started sharing their leisure time with me! These sessions are wonderful, as I had already mentioned, it is so much fun to listen to their fights and arguments.  Most of the time, they would bring up a topic which I love and we head for a gala argument session! I consider myself a queen of sarcasm and I am delighted when I am in the company of these girls as I get ample opportunity to make use of my skills.

Oh, I didn’t introduce the girls here. Five of them – DP, the loner, Samyu, the dreamer, Savi3, the enigmatic beauty, Jeni, the philosopher and  Vaibhavi, the Mother Teresa. To be frank, I was awed, when they first came to spend time with me! But, I am happy that I got to know them better! 


Sometimes, Anu, my colleague too joins us in these sessions! As our chit chatting session ensues, I get a feel of my good old days with my friends….when mind was free from all silly worries! Today mind is always crowded with silly worries like –“What innovative work have I done today?, How soon can I go home and start cooking? And, what should I be cooking – Should I make Parathas or Rice? 

These teenagers are lucky, they don’t have the burden of such thoughts, they are unaware of the real treats that life has in store for them….How I wish I too was one among them! I too long to be there! “Life must have a rewind button!”

I started off with something in mind and ended up with something that is totally unrelated to what I really wanted to pen down.

What a stupid post!

Hey No!

At least, I made a post! I am a good girl, I am, like Eliza Doolittle says! (B/w, Xcuse me for using the word “girl”)

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

My X

My journey with them began in 2009, when I joined this school. I was their class teacher, I still am!

Last year, on the last day I told them – “I don’t know if you are torturing me or I am torturing you. Let’s wait for the next year to see if I will get a chance to torture you again!” Lady Luck smiled at me and I was given yet another year to trouble THEM.  Yes, third year as their class teacher!



I have been wanting to write about them for quite some time. I enjoy every minute that I teach this class, ‘coz such is the kind of attention that they give you. Be it, drama, poetry or short story – it’s wonderful teaching them.

Eighteen – Yes, 10 girls and 8 boys - and each one unique!

Chetan would give me good start – This guy is full of energy and it is infectious too. He is available for anything and everything. Being a commerce buddy, he has a lot of time in hand. What I admire in him is his ‘always-ready-to help attitude’. He is the Vice President of my Club and we have had a lotta time together. I have always felt that he is really able to pass on his high energy to people around too. Adorable guy, naughty though!

Then comes Natus, the Viliyanoor guy – simple, studious and highly responsible.

Nitin – Once upon a time, I used to think that he is the ‘gentleman’ of the class. Recently he has been successful in turning this notion of mine to be a false one, for I can see his tail coming out inch by inch!!!!!!!!! You can’t help admiring him for the kind of hard work he puts into his work, nor can you help noticing his adorable expressions in and off the classroom.

The Trio – Naren, Rahul and Sai. There is something common in them. They give you the funniest of expressions, when reprimanded. All the three are great friends and that is why I preferred the word “TRIO”.
Guru – I think I can describe him as the most obedient guy in the class!

How can I forget the dancer cum artist Shubam? I don’t really know if he enjoys – I thoroughly enjoy pulling his legs – mainly a play with the word “attitude”. I love to see him smile when I pass this comment. There is always this mysterious smile on his face and that is something that I simply adore.

Now, the GALS!

Who would give me a good start here? Why should such a question surface at all? Haritha is the only answer! Like Chetan, she too is a commerce buddy and that way we have had many free sessions together. A girl with great potential, I should say! What I love about her is her willingness to change. She puts in tremendous effort to grab good comments, but I have always shocked (rather surprised) her with rude comments, many a time intentional. But I should say, she is very sportive and would give such an innocent expression which makes you think that she hasn’t heard anything at all. I can see a great entrepreneur in her, I am sure she will tower great heights! OMG – I just forgot to mention about her high sense of responsibility!!!!!!!!!

Japna comes from Kashmir – the adjectives that come to my mind right at the moment are silent, polite, well-behaved, studious, shy and cute – Yes, that describes her!

Another TRIO here – Nimanshi, Nivedha, Ashi! All three are great dancers, not to mention about their style consciousness! Ashi , (she is as shy as her name sounds) the mallu girl is a new addition this year, but she has managed to fit well into this group.

Divya Ben Patel, from Gujarat is studious, shy and a lil reserved! I feel she has diverse talents, which she is yet to open up. 

Shakthipriya is the poet of the class and she owns a personal blog too. Vimeena too is a dancer and is always full of energy. Bhuvi or Bhuvana –the badminton champion – She is one girl, on whom you can rely for any work. But you can never spot her in class during the tournament season. An occasional visitor to class during those times, she has always come up with excellent grades, despite her absence in class. She has a cute smile, which often flashes across, especially when you are pulling her legs!

Hey Hey Hey, how can I forget Smiti, the most studious girl in the class. She is in love with Biology, but does well in English too. A budding microbiologist, she is also good at compering, speech and tennis. It is a pleasure to have her in class, she comes up with the most intelligent queries! I can’t help mentioning about her love for spellings too!  

So, THEY, make my WONDERFUL class. Though there are silly tussles, they make a wonderful class. Most teachers have commented that it is a pleasure teaching this class. I feel happy that I have been able to  sail with them for three consecutive years! But for their hard work, Dew Drops and Daffodils would not have turned out to be such Mega Hits. I should really give them the credit, coz it was this class which helped in materializing my plans!

Having said about these 18, I think I should be mentioning about Samriddhi too. She moved to Madhurai last year and I sure miss her in my class! There were two other guys too -Logesh and Mathi....

Cheers Yo Guys n Gals!
My X, U Rock!

Sunday, March 25, 2012

Letting in Some Fresh Air....

Sometimes, rather, most often, life gets into a muddy runnel and you just feel it is really difficult to come out of it. This has been something I was experiencing for quite a while. I always would think of opening a new window and letting in some fresh air that would help me drive away these stinky thoughts.  I just wanted to switch over my thoughts into some creative stuff, which will surely energize and bring back the “enthusiastic Me”. Some new ideas have dawned and let us wait for time to unveil them!

For today let blogging help!

Tom n Becky

He has always been my favourite author and Tom my favourite fictional character. Yes, I am talking about Mark Twain, the American writer, who is often referred to as “The Father of American Literature.” Mark Twain was, is and will continue to be my favourite author!  

For quite some time, I have been making earnest efforts to make Gauri place some interested in Tom. Thanks to my efforts, he has shown great interest in watching “The Adventures of Tom Sawyer.”  It all started with me finding a copy of the novel in the junior library coupla days ago.  I had read it long back, but read it again. When I narrated the “toothache” episode, Gauri loved it and I thought, he would like the movie too.

I had never seen the movie before, but was amazed to see that Tom is in the movie just fitted the actual Tom tailored by Twain. His naughty looks, his attire, his mannerisms – everything was well captured by the lil guy. It is almost like Tom just comes out of the novel and acts! Yeah, I can’t help adoring him. 

Saturday, March 24, 2012

From Frozen Thoughts....

This is an extract from an article from Frozen Thoughts, which I thought would make an interesting read. 
Dominating Peer!


This is the most dreaded peer relationship. This type of professional is either highly intelligent, but aggressive or portrays a false confidence so as to not get exposed. She/he feels the only way to leadership is to dominate others. While he/she never misses an opportunity to find fault with others, she/he can never take criticism from others. Because of this dominant nature, over a period, people may not respect him/her though the work done is good!

   Internal Traits of a Dominating peer!
     Feels “I know it all and I am above the rest’
   Thinks attack is the best form of defence
   High caliber and efficient individually
   Believes in creating fear to gain respect
   Doesn’t empathize or respect others’ views
   Waits to magnify a problem
   Speaks more than listening

External Traits of a Dominating Peer!
Shows aggression
 Dominates weak peers
 Though intelligent, not admired by others
 People don’t wish to work together with them
 No respect from others
 Suggests without taking responsibility
 Not willing to learn, think they can dictate




And........after reading it, what I feel is the best way to tackle these people is to just answer back with your "work". Let your work speak for you.....

Some Favourite Quotes!

You may fool all the people some of the time, you can fool some of the people all the time, but you cannot fool all the people all the time – Abraham Lincoln

Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts. - Kahlil Gibran

Everybody’s private motto – It is better to be popular than to be right! – Mark Twain